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The patriarchs · Genesis 13

Abram and Lot Part Ways

Back from Egypt, Abram travels up to Bethel, to the altar he had built there, and calls on the name of the LORD. He and his nephew Lot have so many possessions that the land can no longer support them both, and their herdsmen begin to quarrel. Abram takes the initiative for peace: “Let there be no strife, I pray thee, between me and thee … for we be brethren.” He lets Lot choose first: “if thou wilt take the left hand, then I will go to the right.” Lot lifts up his eyes and sees the plain of the Jordan, well watered “as the garden of the LORD,” and takes it. He pitches his tents toward Sodom, a city of notorious sinners. Then the LORD says to Abram: “all the land which thou seest, to thee will I give it, and to thy seed for ever.” Abram settles by the oaks of Mamre, near Hebron, and builds an altar there.

What happens

  1. Back at Bethel, Abram calls on the name of the LORD Genesis 13:3–4
  2. Quarrel between Abram’s herdsmen and Lot’s Genesis 13:6–7
  3. “We be brethren”: Abram lets Lot choose Genesis 13:8–9
  4. Lot chooses the well-watered plain of the Jordan Genesis 13:10–11
  5. “All the land which thou seest, to thee will I give it” Genesis 13:14–15
  6. Abram settles by the oaks of Mamre and builds an altar Genesis 13:18

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The lesson

Abram chooses peace over his rights and lets his nephew choose first; he loses nothing, because God promises him the whole land. Lot chooses based on what his eyes see and drifts toward Sodom: our choices reveal where our heart is.

And Abram said unto Lot, Let there be no strife, I pray thee, between me and thee, and between my herdmen and thy herdmen; for we be brethren.
Genesis 13:8

Quick quiz on this story

Why can Abram and Lot no longer live together?

Which region does Lot choose when Abram lets him pick?

How far does Lot pitch his tents?

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